Clarifying Feelings: Damilola and Toyosi’s Heart-to-Heart

Damilola and Toyosi’s Conversation

Damilola: It may seem like I’m falling in love, so I want to check with you, Toyosi, if you have anything going on with the guy, just to be safe.

Toyosi: Nooo.

Damilola: If you do, please let me know. I can always back off and put my mind off it. That’s why I’m asking. But your reason isn’t convincing enough, and that’s why I keep asking.

Toyosi: I’ve heard there’s a situation.

Damilola: But I asked because I saw something. If I hadn’t seen anything, I wouldn’t be asking you. I didn’t ask about Ben because I didn’t see anything there. I’m only talking to you because I noticed a slight connection, a sort of attraction. That’s why I’m asking.

Toyosi: Honestly, there’s nothing. We’re just friends. So, you can just do your thing. But before you say anything, make sure you both are on the same page so you don’t put yourself out there.

Damilola: No, I’m not saying anything.

Toyosi: Okay, just in case you feel the urge to say something or decide to.

Damilola: No, I’ve already decided I’m not going to. Not because I plan to tell him—there might be signs, but I don’t want to let him know.

Toyosi: No problem.

Damilola: Do you understand? My intention is not to let him know. My behavior might give it away, but I won’t say anything until the feelings are mutual. What if he likes you instead? So, I can’t say anything to him until I’m sure. I just want to be safe. If there’s anything, please let me know.

Toyosi: From my end, it’s just…