Toby Forge: Let’s say we’re dating and I love you a lot. If I then see someone who looks just like you, out of curiosity, I might wonder, “What does it feel like? Does it feel the same?” It’s just curiosity.
Kassia: So the main reason for cheating is curiosity?
Toby Forge: It often starts with curiosity. If you don’t have strong self-control, your mind might wander and you might think, “This girl isn’t bad, maybe I’ll give it a try.” Sometimes, men do these things without any real feelings involved.
Kassia: But if the girl you’re with is way more beautiful than anyone else, why would a man cheat? She has everything.
Toby Forge: I can’t really explain that one; it’s just desire. Men don’t need love to be attracted; they might just feel horny and want to act on it.
Kassia: Sometimes, married men have very beautiful wives, but their side chicks are unattractive. What are they looking for?
Toby Forge: They just want to try something different. I know it sounds crazy.
Kassia: So you guys get bored with one person?
Toby Forge: Some men do. For me, if I take you seriously, I won’t cheat.
Kassia: You, that I’m seeing now? 😂😂😂
Toby Forge: I have my reasons. If I’m dating someone, it’s because I chose you for a reason. It means you have everything I want, and I don’t have time to think about others. My last girlfriend and I broke up because she earned more than I did.